tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6860383952165882561.post1569606921702085715..comments2014-10-18T20:14:41.405-07:00Comments on Foreigner in the Family: Saozi (Eldest Brother's Wife)Blink Blinkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14453681964339944722noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6860383952165882561.post-11906450871591592732010-10-20T03:29:49.912-07:002010-10-20T03:29:49.912-07:00The loss of the little boy with atresia of his anu...The loss of the little boy with atresia of his anus is so sad. I work with a group called Chinakidz who provide hospice care for very sick kids in Changsha - kids with a life expectancy of 6 months or less. One of our kids had this same condition - she's fine now - healthy after surgery. But her parents had already abandoned her out of desperation. The kids we care for now are orphans, but we are expanding to provide community hospice care. We want to offer parents help to reduce abandonment and deaths of precious children.mncfihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11907290064561653045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6860383952165882561.post-61786310526070062802010-03-15T20:53:30.894-07:002010-03-15T20:53:30.894-07:00Yes, perhaps Saozi felt that he had a duty to prov...Yes, perhaps Saozi felt that he had a duty to provide for her and why should she leave? Thanks for your thoughts. I am always intrigued by her, but I am not close enough to her to ask her about it.Blink Blinkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14453681964339944722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6860383952165882561.post-36818342144524690122010-03-15T20:47:36.344-07:002010-03-15T20:47:36.344-07:00Hi Blink Blink,
I just pop in to see if you have ...Hi Blink Blink,<br /><br />I just pop in to see if you have written something new and you did.<br /><br />I hope that I don't sound judgemental but I think your SaoZi stayed with your BIL because of duty. She is probably thinking that she did nothing wrong so therefore she shouldn't be the one to leave. Running her own business shows everyone that she is independent.<br /><br />I am beginning to think that you know more about the Chinese people than myself. LOL. Re: Fenjia, I really should ask my parents what Overseas Chinese of my generation do nowadays. It seems complicating moving in with the parents to live separate lives under the same roof.Priscillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11457045457466272556noreply@blogger.com